I cringe at the thought of my daughter listening to the misogynist hip-hop I once loved | Hafsa Lodi
by Hafsa Lodi on (#6GW7E)
After I became a mother, I just couldn't listen to the demeaning tracks of artists such as Eminem, Lil Jon and Busta RhymesDuring my final year of university, I remember hanging out with friends by a lake one summer. One friend set up his new hookah pipe as a dozen of us settled on a picnic mat, preparing for a laidback evening of good conversation and music. I offered up my iPod to the friend-of-a-friend who had a portable speaker and was controlling the music. But as she scrolled through my music library, the mood soured; she looked at me aghast, berating me for my choice of un-feminist" music.One by one, she read out the titles of songs by Eamon, Busta Rhymes and other artists whose names I can no longer remember, who rapped profanities that I no longer feel comfortable typing on my keyboard, disgusted. As a woman, I shouldn't be listening to such music, she told me.