I’ve seen everything as a counsellor. But Couples Therapy still has me gripped

Most people want their sessions to remain private, but a new TV show that lifts the lid on the process is compelling - and rewarding

Two weeks ago, as 2021 turned into 2022, my inbox was suddenly full of couples requesting counselling. It wasn't that surprising because every year after Christmas, many couples have a meltdown. It's the fatal combination of forced Christmas jollity and endless hours spent together that makes people realise they don't know if they like or get on with each other any more. Throw in the confinement of Covid and you have perfect conditions for relationship breakdown.

So couples contact me. The journey starts as we delve beneath the veneer of the couple, going to places that most fear to go. Top of the problem agenda is usually sex, followed by money. But, at the heart of all this, is the desire for true intimacy combined with our deep fear of it.