I’ve just become a mum – where is the writing about parenting for my generation? | Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett

In this new series, I promise not to write as though I am the first ever to have given birth to a child, but I do have different questions to ask

If you are reading this, it means that I have just become a mother. For reasons of practicality, and superstition, I am writing this column in advance. I am currently 29 weeks pregnant, just into my third trimester, but this will not run until, all being well, my baby is born.

Born, too - hopefully less painfully - is this series, The Republic of Parenthood, which will hopefully speak to other parents, and examine some of the philosophical, political and cultural issues around modern parenthood. I chose the name to honour The Republic of Motherhood, a beautiful poem by Liz Berry that evokes the feeling of which many new mothers speak; of joining a new society, almost, which feels like a closed-off state separate from the rest of the world, one that necessitates the learning of new rules and customs:

I stood with my sisters in the queues of Motherhood -
the weighing clinic, the supermarket - waiting
for Motherhood's bureaucracies to open their doors.
As required, I stood beneath the flag of Motherhood
and opened my mouth although I did not know the anthem."

Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett is a Guardian columnist and author