To be young and trans is difficult enough – to be rejected by family is unthinkable | Owen Jones

A new survey highlights the abuse LGBTQ+ people suffer from family members. Britain's anti-trans rhetoric will make things worse

You don't need to have raised children to know that, at its core, parenthood is about unconditional love. We don't get to choose them, and we may find friends and companions that we gel with better, but family is supposed to be that ultimate safety net. If your life is upended and all else seems lost, it should be a reserve of love that will never be depleted. Of course, parenthood also means disapproval, disappointment, even blind fury - but, for most, being rejected or abandoned by those who brought you into the world is unthinkable.

For many LGBTQ+ people, however, it can be a grim fact of life. It has been more than half a century since same-sex acts were partly decriminalised, and 25 years since a Labour government was elected that commendably repealed anti-gay laws. But according to a new study by the charity Galop, a third of LGBTQ+ people have suffered abuse from relatives, mostly their parents. Among trans and non-binary people, that figure is even higher: more than four in 10.

Owen Jones is a Guardian columnist