‘I still wince when I think about it’: 10 text messages – and the stories behind them

It's 30 years since the first SMS landed. Writers, authors and comedians share the txt msgs that changed their life

It was 2007: the nation was saying goodbye to Tony Blair and the tightness of my jeans was outrageous. I was 22, fresh out of university and in a thrilling new relationship with the man who would, 11 years later, become my husband. For ages, I kept this relationship from my family, but towards the end of spring I was done with the indignity of sneaking around. I wanted to be open. I eventually told my fairly traditional Ghanaian mother that I was gay and had a boyfriend who I had been seeing for months. Let's just say that the conversation involved increasingly heated uses of the word No".