Take it from someone who was on the internet at 10 years old: a ban won’t keep children off TikTok | Chris Stokel-Walker

This misguided Tory crackdown won't keep kids off social media. The best solution is for families to have open conversations

It's easy to talk tough on tech, as Michelle Donelan, the secretary of state for science, innovation and technology has shown this week. In an interview with the Telegraph, Donelan warned that social media platforms could be on the hook for humongous" fines if they allowed under-13s to remain on their platforms. If that means deactivating the accounts of nine-year-olds or eight-year-olds, then they're going to have to do that," the cabinet minister said.

The approach sounds all well and good in theory. It's red meat to the pearl-clutching, law and order Tories who believe the world is full of danger, and tech companies are to blame. Don't get me wrong - there is plenty to lay at the feet of social media companies for the harm they have caused. But the tough talk is part of a wider tendency in our politics that ignores the reality of how we interact with the internet - and demands a degree of censorship that is not only unworkable, but counterproductive.

Certainly, the internet can be a cruel place, and what happens online can have real-world ramifications. Disclosures made following the campaigning of the parents of Molly Russell, the teenager who took her life after being bombarded by online content related to suicide, self-harm and depression, have been chastening. And documents leaked by former Facebook employee Frances Haugen laid bare the access many users had to distressing content and misinformation.