I regularly shared photos of my son on social media. Then alarm bells started ringing | Hannah Nwoko

Like millions of doting parents, I wanted to keep others abreast of my child's milestones. But the likes' weren't worth the risks

Social media is a strange place. On the one hand it can be a relentlessly toxic, dark cluster of ill intent; on the other, it can act as the glue that binds us to new communities, friends of the past and family we've almost forgotten. Nostalgia kicks in when we scroll through Instagram or Facebook and see life milestones from decades gone by. It's a gentle reminder of life's simple preciousness.

That's why it makes perfect sense that, according to some estimates, 42% of parents in Britain share photos of their children online. More than 50% of those parents share these photos at least once a month. A 2018 report by the children's commissioner found that parents share about 71 photos and 29 videos of their child every year on social media. On average, by the time the child is aged 13, parents have posted 1,300 photos and videos of them to social media.