We’re in a relationship recession – and a lot of women are absolutely fine with that | Emma Beddington

Older people don't want to get married; youngsters aren't dating. But maybe there's more to life than being in a couple

Sorry, Valentine's Day is cancelled: we're in a relationship recession. Analysis of demographic data by the Financial Times shows a dramatic decline in married or cohabiting young adults, with tanking relationship formation" rates in countries as diverse as Thailand, Finland, Peru, South Korea and Turkey. In the US, the marriage rate fell by 54% between 1900 and 2022, while younger people aren't even dating: the percentage of 16- to 18-year-olds who report having dated has dipped under 50%, the Atlantic reports, with the decline particularly steep in the past few years".

My immediate thought is: well, obviously. The resurgence of the far right, accelerating climate collapse, geopolitical instability and deep economic precarity aren't exactly Marvin-Gaye-and-oysters vibes. As relationship red flags go, isn't getting horny amid imminent global catastrophe one of the biggest, reddest ones? Ijusthave to imagine Elon Musk and I'm ready to be walled up inananchorite's cell.

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