Problem Making VNCSERVER Connection From Windows 10

Greetings all, I can use some help getting my Windows 10 system to get a connection to my Debian 10 Linux system (Parrot Linux 4.9 with all updates applied).

I get a connection from WIN10 to the VNCserver but I want to use KDE and after (WIN10 TightVnc viewer) makes the connection all I have is a screen filled with tiny dots so I know from the logs that a connection is being made.

Below are the commands I used to install the VNCserver and the listing of the VNC logs.

I don't understand how the (~) character is effecting the search structure and what the character is doing, if anything. Also I don't think the STARTXKDE command is correct nor the system, VNCserver is the control files.

Any help will be appreciated. Thanks

08/12/20 20:27:08 Xvnc version TightVNC-1.3.10
2 08/12/20 20:27:08 Copyright (C) 2000-2009 TightVNC Group
3 08/12/20 20:27:08 Copyright (C) 1999 AT&T Laboratories Cambridge
4 08/12/20 20:27:08 All Rights Reserved.
5 08/12/20 20:27:08 See http://www.tightvnc.com/ for information on TightVNC 6 08/12/20 20:27:08 Desktop name 'X' (parrot:1)
7 08/12/20 20:27:08 Protocol versions supported: 3.3, 3.7, 3.8, 3.7t, 3.8t 8 08/12/20 20:27:08 Listening for VNC connections on TCP port 5901
9 xrdb: No such file or directory
10 xrdb: can't open file '/home/howardr/.Xresources'
11 /home/howardr/.vnc/xstartup: line 3: startxkde: command not found
12
13 08/12/20 20:27:29 Got connection from client 192.168.1.70
14 08/12/20 20:27:29 Using protocol version 3.8
15 08/12/20 20:27:29 Enabling TightVNC protocol extensions
16 08/12/20 20:27:38 Full-control authentication passed by 192.168.1.70 17 08/12/20 20:27:38 Using tight encoding for client 192.168.1.70
18 08/12/20 20:27:38 rfbProcessClientNormalMessage: ignoring unknown encoding 16
19 08/12/20 20:27:38 Using image quality level 6 for client 192.168.1.70 20 08/12/20 20:27:38 rfbProcessClientNormalMessage: ignoring unknown encoding -223
21 08/12/20 20:27:38 Enabling LastRect protocol extension for client 192.168.1.70
22 08/12/20 20:27:38 Enabling cursor position updates for client 192.168.1.70 23 08/12/20 20:27:38 Enabling full-color cursor updates for client 192.168.1.70
24 08/12/20 20:27:55 Client 192.168.1.70 gone
25 08/12/20 20:27:55 Statistics:
26 08/12/20 20:27:55 key events received 1, pointer events 121 "parrot:1.log" 32 lines, 1869 bytes

27 08/12/20 20:27:55 framebuffer updates 1, rectangles 15, bytes 2054 28 08/12/20 20:27:55 LastRect markers 1, bytes 12
29 08/12/20 20:27:55 cursor shape updates 1, bytes 1068
30 08/12/20 20:27:55 cursor position updates 1, bytes 12
31 08/12/20 20:27:55 tight rectangles 12, bytes 962
32 08/12/20 20:27:55 raw bytes equivalent 3145740, compression ratio 3270.000000

Installation Commands came from the web site below:

https://www.digitalocean.com/communi...c-on-debian-10

howardr@parrot][~]
$cd .vnc
[howardr@parrot][~/.vnc]
$ls -la
total 32
drwx------ 1 howardr howardr 134 Dec 8 20:39 .
drwxr-xr-x 1 howardr howardr 664 Dec 8 20:38 ..
-rw-r--r-- 1 howardr howardr 1869 Dec 8 20:27 parrot:1.log
-rw-r--r-- 1 howardr howardr 12288 Dec 8 20:39 .parrot:1.log.swp
-rw-r--r-- 1 howardr howardr 6 Dec 8 20:27 parrot:1.pid
-rw------- 1 howardr howardr 8 Dec 8 18:33 passwd
-rwxr-xr-x 1 howardr howardr 47 Dec 8 20:25 xstartup
-rwxr-xr-x 1 howardr howardr 225 Dec 8 18:33 xstartup.bak
[howardr@parrot][~/.vnc]
$cat xstartup
#!/bin/bash
xrdb $HOME/.Xresources
startxkde &
[howardr@parrot][~/.vnc]