We didn’t ask for Lady Hussey to resign. But, really, the monarchy must do better on race | Mandu Reid

I witnessed the racist remarks, but blaming one person alone distracts from the depth and breadth of racism in that institution

I generally avoid news about the royals. So it was a real eye-opener to find myself at the centre of a royal story. At a reception on Tuesday to honour those working to end violence against women and girls, I witnessed racist remarks from a member of the royal household directed at my friend and fellow activist, Ngozi Fulani. Lady Hussey's prolonged interrogation about where Ngozi was really from, what her nationality was and where her people were from, was not - as many people have insisted to me over the past 24 hours - the kind of well-meaning curiosity that all of us experience from time to time (though it's possible that Hussey believed that it was).

Hackney" was Ngozi's answer, but Hussey refused to accept this. Her response implied that Black and brown people couldn't really be British. It implied that we were trespassing - and it made me reflect on the increasingly hostile environment of this disunited kingdom.

Mandu Reid is leader of the Women's Equality party