‘I told her: your TikToks are cringe’ – the consultants who get teens into elite sororities

Experts on Greek life offer students tips on what to wear and what to post, in a bid to smooth out the rough edges'

I need more friends. Or, specifically, I need more photos on social media where I'm posing with my friends. That's what Lorie Stefanelli, a sorority recruitment consultant who trains girls on how to get into the toughest houses in the country, would recommend if I were an incoming freshman.

If your whole grid is just you by yourself, it looks like you don't have any friends," she says, bluntly. Though in real life I am a boring 28-year-old woman with no plans to rush anywhere except home to my couch, I have asked Stefanelli to advise me as if I were a freshman joining a sorority.