‘We wanted to change the norm on smartphone use’: grassroots campaigners on a phone-free childhood

Most UK children have their own phone by the age of 11. But what if we didn't give them one? A group of parents wants their kids to enjoy a phone-free childhood - and their numbers are growing

Last year, Daisy Greenwell and Clare Fernyhough, longtime friends who have eight- and nine-year-old daughters, began having drawn-out conversations about smartphones. Rumours were swirling that children in their daughters' classes were asking for their own and both Greenwell and Fernyhough were apprehensive about the knock-on effect. If their daughters' friends owned smartphones, wouldn't their daughters eventually demand them, too? And what might happen then? Talking to the parents of children who already owned smartphones only helped to increase their concern. They told us about kids disappearing into their screens," Greenwell said recently. They don't want to hang out with family any more. They don't want to go outside." A local teacher told Greenwell he was able to speak with his daughter only when the wifi was turned off. And these are the lighter problems," she said.

Neither Greenwell nor Fernyhough wanted to buy smartphones for their children until they turned 16 (preferably they wouldn't own them until much later). But they could feel pressure mounting. In the UK, 91% of 11-year-olds have a smartphone - it became common remarkably quickly for children to be given a phone when they began secondary school - and 20% of children own them by the time they are four. (The average age for a UK child to receive their first smartphone is around nine.) With grim acceptance, secondary school parents told Greenwell, It's the worst, it's so, so bad, but there's no choice" - they couldn't find a way to prevent their children from having something all of their friends already owned. Both Greenwell and Fernyhough felt trapped; for their daughters, secondary school loomed on the horizon. We thought, What can we do about it?'" Greenwell told me. Shall we not get one? But what if everyone else gets one and our children are the only ones without?"