As our friends with kids become grandparents, it reignites the sadness of being childless not by choice | Tess Pryor

At times we fear a future without the anchor of family. But love bombs from the many children in our life can be great defibrillators for a blown-up heart

If life had panned out the way we had imagined, Chris and I would be doting grandparents by now. People who are childless not by choice know that as much as having children changes you, so does not being able to have children when you want them.

With five pregnancy losses, the last one 26 years ago, that is us.