How I became a Buffalo Bills fan – and learned what home means

I never cared about football. Then my Buffalonian boyfriend's family brought me into the fold - and I discovered how failure, fandom and community intertwine

On 14 October 2024, having never supported a team before, or, to be honest, especially liked sports at all, I became a Buffalo Bills fan. I'd been going out with my Buffalonian boyfriend for more than a year, which I think in his parents' eyes meant my introduction to the team that animates their entire hometown was overdue. They drove down to New York City, kitted me out in a Bills baseball cap, hoodie and blanket (and plastic Bills bag to hold it all in) - and took me to a game.

I thought I'd seen enough Super Bowls to know I didn't care about football, but wrapped in that staticky blanket, one of the few spots of Buffalo blue in a snake-green sea of Jets supporters at MetLife Stadium, I realized what I'd been missing: a team. Or more specifically: this team.