I was one of Lena Dunham’s haters. I want to say I’m sorry | Dave Schilling

The truth is, we were all just jealous

To Lena Dunham, I need to say that I'm sorry. I'm sure she'll never read this, since she doesn't seem like the kind of person who Googles herself. If I was Lena, I certainly wouldn't. The internet is full of mockery, sarcasm and outright cruelty. I've been part of the problem, too. Lena and I were starting off our careers at the same time, those halcyon days of the 2010s, when people still subscribed to cable TV and social media was just a fun new tool to post random thoughts and photos of your brunch. Now, if you post a photo of a meal, people will scream at you for bragging that you can afford food.

Fourteen years since HBO's Girls turned Dunham from an indie film darling into a mainstream superstar, the writer/director is now releasing a memoir that reflects on her time in the cultural crosshairs. The headline of a New York Times interview reads: Lena Dunham Is Still Trying to Figure Out Why People Hated Her So Much."