What my dad taught me about the inevitability of death | Amanda Sloat

Most fathers would shield their children from death. Mine, a psychologist, did the opposite

My dad and I kept a running list of ways we didn't want to die. Being buried alive was always No 1. Whenever we learned about unusual deaths - accidents involving farm machinery, medieval torture, mobsters encasing victims' feet in cement before throwing them in the ocean - we added them to our shared catalogue.

Most fathers would shield their children from such morbid fascinations. Mine, a psychologist, did the opposite. He saw death as life's most honest teacher and ensured I wouldn't meet it as a stranger.

Amanda Sloat is professor of practice in international relations at IE University in Madrid, Spain