He Started Out as the ‘Dear Abby’ of Grindr. Now Everyone Wants His Advice by Jason Parham from Feed: All Latest on 2024-08-09 15:18 (#6PVT0) With the advice column Hola Papi!, JP Brammer tackles life's most eccentric and heart-wrenching issues-like what to do after realizing your fiance is catfishing you.