My unholy battle with a Rock64

I've got this rock64, which is an aarch64 board comparable to a Raspberry Pi 3 B+ with 4 gigs of ram. For years I've wanted to put a distribution on here that doesn't have a premade image available, mainly because out of all the options on that page I don't actually like any of them. Well, except NetBSD, but NetBSD doesn't have GPU drivers for it. Problem is, everything I do want to use provides rootfs tarballs and tells you to figure it out. To do that I've got to get a Linux kernel, track down the device trees so it knows what hardware it has, and then wrangle u-boot into actually booting the whole thing. I figured that would be the hard part; little did I know the depths that Single Board Computer Hell would reach.

Unlike x86, ARM is far, far from a standardised platform. The end result of this is that unless you can find tailor-made images specific for your particular ARM board, you're gonna have to do a lot of manual labour to install an operating system that should work.